Happy International Women’s Day from A2Empowerment! Nous sommes Ensemble! We are together!
Empowering women through education
In 2012, a small group of the A2Empowerment network supported a bra project. The idea was sparked by a blog post from Charmayne Cooley, a Peace Corps Volunteer at the time:
http://candidcameroon.blogspot.com/2012/06/i-know-that-youll-never-be-same-again.html
Sunday, June 24th 2012 (2nd to last paragraph for date entry):
“…After a year and a half in village, I felt like I had a pretty good grasp on a lot of the major problems – but also recognize that there’s always something new to learn as the “outsider.” What was their concern? They were upset with the condition of their breasts. Yup… As it turns out, saggy boobs (or, breasts that fall – seins qui tombent) are really worrisome to the women (and men). They explained that, after breastfeeding, they find their ladies aren’t so perky. Not only does this make them feel unattractive, but it has larger cultural implications. This was shocking to me since, after seeing breasts day in and day out in public during breastfeeding, I wouldn’t have assumed they’re a body part that is as sexualized as they are in America. However, the women said that it leads their men to stray, and the men nodded in agreement…”
Thinking of all of the practically new bras that no longer fit her following pregnancies, Anne C reached out to Charmayne with a proposal: gather bras to distribute in Cameroon to help improve women’s self-image. Charmayne agreed, and tied the project to a women’s health seminar in her village. There was a huge response, both here and in Cameroon. Charmayne distributed the 170(!) bras in her village, and summarized this experience in a piece published in the Peace Corps Cameroon Newsletter.
Recently, Charmayne found this link, suggesting we were onto something back then:
http://www.stuffmomnevertoldyou.com/podcasts/sports-boobs.htm
Anne C was recently prompted by a colleague to try this again, so stay tuned in the near future for Bra Project – Take 2!
…and thank you to everyone who supports women, both literally and figuratively =)
The following profile comes courtesy of Dicko Sulle, the interim head of English Language and Literature of English Expression at GSS Upkwa.
“Sa-adatu Adamu is a first time recipient of the A2 Empowerment
scholarship. Last year, former Peace Corps Volunteer and i missed her
a lot on the program. One of the outspoken and front role player among
all the girls, Sa-adatu Adamu is the type of girl to be on such a
program. In fact, we included her for most of our sessions last year
because she triggers discussions and pulls the girls along in public
speaking. Coming from a community where women play the back role, most
of the girls spoke in their armpits out of shame and shyness. It took
the likes of Sa-adatu to break the silence and even engage the boys in
discussing gender sensitive topics. She is focused and [does] not avoid
eye contact when speaking to her teachers let alone her peers.
“Our wish have been to have her on the program and we luckily did. She
is also one of those girls who has multitudes of potential husbands
for her beauty and elegance. ” Sa-adatu Adamu will not stop school for
any man until she finishes school” her father declared when [I] sought
to know from him how he is coping with the pressure of marrying her
off. On her part, Sa-adatu is bent on continuing school and dreams to
become a journalist. She is writing her end of course GCE Ordinary
Level examination this June 2016. If she succeeds, she will proceed to
high school out of Upkwa, her village. Going out of Upkwa to continue
high school remains a serious threat to the education of not only
Sa-adatu but all the girls. Because this will mean them staying away
from their parents, a thing which majority of parents would not prefer
for various reasons. Among the reasons is the lack of money to pay for
not only fees but house rent and food allowance out of home. The fact
that these girls will live alone is also a highly detested idea as
they think this will further expose their daughters to social vices
like prostitution.
“When [I] sought to know what she feels about the program, this is what
she had to say, ” I do not know how to thank A2Empowerment for this
scholarship. My parents are just too happy and it has increased their
pride in me. Now they see me as a girl who can make a difference in
the society”. Sa-adatu will remain at the center of school activities,
from [singing] the National Anthem during morning devotion to carrying the
school flag during public events. She is also the senior school
prefect girl who sits in all disciplinary council and Parent Teacher
Association meetings as a students representative….”
Buba Dicko
The following profile comes from the Dicko Sulle, who is the interim head of English Language and Literature of English Expression at GSS Upkwa.
“Hi there,
“Let me begin the stories of our A2Empowerment girls in GSS Upkwa with
Fatimah Abdullahi.
“Fatimah is an orphan who lost [her] dad to thieves
when she was still a few years old. She grew up with her grand mother
in Upkwa, a resettlement camp for 1986 Lake Nyos survivors. Fatimah is
a second time recipient of the scholarship award and is by far the
best in academics, punctuality, dedication to community service and
humbleness. She is a role model with a big dream of becoming a medical
doctor. She is now 17 years old and plans to graduate from secondary
school next year and go on to high school. Recently, her uncles
attempted to pull her out of school to marry one of her cousins. She
remained strong and determined to resist until the plan was finally
halted. This term that just ended, her performance in school was
encouraging more than ever before. “[I] will work hard to merit the
support of people until [I] graduate from school and get a job” she
recently declared to me a few weeks back when [I] sought to know how she
was faring on. Like all the other girls in the Aku community, Fatimah
wouldn’t have been in school if GSS Upkwa was not created. The school
is now host to some 57 girls less than 1% of whom would not have been
in school if the school was not opened.
“In the Aku community, secular education has just begun to sink deep.
Previously, Aku had total distrust for secular education. They claimed
that children who go to school end up morally bankrupt with unwanted
pregnancy being the inevitable for the girl child. It was considered
a taboo for one’s daughter to have a child out of marriage. Hence
girls were married off as early as twelve years old. Even now, many
parents only allow their girl children in school only as long as a
husband does not show up. Every year, we have kept losing many girls
to early marriages. But girls like Fatimah and a few others are poised
to change the situation. It is also my wish to see this happen.”
Note: This post was updated because Mr. Dicko Sulle was misidentified as principal at GSS Upkwa.